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    He raped me for seven years and blamed me

    I was a mere five years old when my stepfather first came into my room in the dead of night. He whispered my name and when I… Read more “He raped me for seven years and blamed me”

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    Jul 23, 2018 by Nikita

    Support service developed to aid sexual assault survivors

    A rape survivors’ support service has been developed by Health-e News. It is a USSD service and online map that provides a directory of all Thuthuzela Care… Read more “Support service developed to aid sexual assault survivors”

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    Jul 19, 2018 by Nikita

    The danger in playing down sexual assault is all too real

    The world does many things to protect patriarchy and gender norms. One of them is to shift responsibility away from male perpetrators of violence to their victims in order… Read more “The danger in playing down sexual assault is all too real”

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    Nov 1, 2017 by Nikita

    The demons of rape just never go away, do they?

    One day in April 1997, a demon that had been chasing me finally caught up. It wasn’t shadowed and cloaked. Instead, it was open, smiling, and full… Read more “The demons of rape just never go away, do they?”

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    May 13, 2017 by Nikita

    ‘I am not a better person as a result of having been raped’

    I hate it when people call me “brave” for surviving being raped. It’s been seven years since he took me to his dorm and after my saying… Read more “‘I am not a better person as a result of having been raped’”

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    May 11, 2017 by Nikita

    If you’re thinking about suicide, read this first

    Dear suicidal person, If you are reading this, it means you’re having doubts about suicide. So thank you. I may not know you or whether this will… Read more “If you’re thinking about suicide, read this first”

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    Feb 24, 2017Feb 24, 2017 by Nikita

    Strong, independent, educated – and abused

    The most recent social media hashtag party invited all and sundry to #SaveMelania. … Yes, the new First Lady of the US. That Melania. Even the most… Read more “Strong, independent, educated – and abused”

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    Jan 26, 2017 by Nikita

    What people don’t tell you about the aftermath of sexual trauma

    There are many difficulties one goes through after a traumatic event. We hear all about these; the stages of grief, decisions of whether to tell family, friends,… Read more “What people don’t tell you about the aftermath of sexual trauma”

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    Jan 25, 2017Mar 29, 2017 by Nikita

    Remembering Khwezi: Her life was taken long before she died

    Her name was Fezekile Ntsukela Kuzwayo. She was lesbian. She was HIV positive. She was an activist. She accused Jacob Zuma of rape. She became known as Khwezi.… Read more “Remembering Khwezi: Her life was taken long before she died”

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    Oct 10, 2016Oct 10, 2016 by Nikita

    The dorm master and his ‘pets’

    This is what happened to me in 1954-1955. The teacher must be long dead by now. It used to snow there most winters. It was austere in its control… Read more “The dorm master and his ‘pets’”

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    Jul 18, 2016 by Nikita

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